Comparison

Its been a long time since the last write-up I wrote and posted... I know you all missed me.. (You did , right ?) 
Well, .. So... I was just walking on the stairs .. And then suddenly a question came in my mind .. 
WHAT IS THE NEED FOR COMPARISON ? ... 
I mean why do we compare people? .. Seriously, what is the need?... 
We all are different, right.
Not a single person on this earth is similar to the other. I mean see in yourself too. Your fingers doesnt match.. Okay , leave the fingers ( I can imagine the questions and facts coming in your mind while reading this.. Because they are there in mine too. And if they are not coming in your mind that's also cool.. You're imperfectly perfect boii...) and see your fingerprints.. They are minor, right .. But yet they differ from each other. 
Thats the thing .. Everyone is great in something.. Well, some of them out there are great in other things too.. But that doesn't mean you are not great. You are great ... You are imperfectly perfect. And that's the best thing of yours. 
You are the exception. And exceptions are great.. They make you different. And so you are .. 
And if you still don't get my point.. Then answer me this ..
"What is so good about being similar? Or why you want it, or why others want it for others and themselves ?"

Because according to me.. If that person is good in something .. Take it as if that person is good in english or other subjects or is a topper or cooks good food or is a great player or knows several languages or whatever ,...etc, etc, etc.
Then MA SHAA ALLAH to that person .. Great .. He / she is doing a great job .. But stop kicking the bucket all over and over again. It will just make you feel useless .. And trust me buddy , you are not useless. You are great, You are an exception and You are imperfectly perfect. Just be you .. You are different , be that different . Don't let somebody's or your comparing with other hurt you.. YOU ARE YOU. There's nobody like you. 
Just stop comparing .. Whether its happening with you or you doing it to yourself or happening to other person. Just stop it. Trust me.! 
Also, being different doesn't mean you keep doing your bad works (Ugh!! Dont say me that I compared here , because I know I compared and it is worth comparing as bad work will make you different but it's not you.. And there's still that good side of yours present inside you .. Just let it out .. Let it grow.. Then see.. the difference.).
 
Yep! Forgot to mention this.. If you want somebody to change .. Stop comparing first .. Just have a good talk with them. Not everyone is your enemy or frenemy. Even if you're being compared, dont loose your mind, buddy. And dont switch off your humanity.. You are not a vampire... I know ,but still.
And dont forget that.... 

YOU ARE YOU 
YOU ARE THE DIFFERENCE.
YOU ARE NOT WEIRD OR BAD OR BY WHATEVER NAME THEY CALL YOU.
MOREOVER,
YOU ARE IMPERFECTLY PERFECT.

(Also , dont forget to answer the questions I asked , mate .. In the comment section.) 
(I guess there's a lot of forget , forget in this).

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