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Comparison

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Its been a long time since the last write-up I wrote and posted... I know you all missed me.. (You did , right ?)  Well, .. So... I was just walking on the stairs .. And then suddenly a question came in my mind ..  WHAT IS THE NEED FOR COMPARISON ? ...  I mean why do we compare people? .. Seriously, what is the need?...  We all are different, right. Not a single person on this earth is similar to the other. I mean see in yourself too. Your fingers doesnt match.. Okay , leave the fingers ( I can imagine the questions and facts coming in your mind while reading this.. Because they are there in mine too. And if they are not coming in your mind that's also cool.. You're imperfectly perfect boii...) and see your fingerprints.. They are minor, right .. But yet they differ from each other.  Thats the thing .. Everyone is great in something.. Well, some of them out there are great in other things too.. But that doesn't mean you are not great. You are great ....

kindness (I)

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Kindness directly comes out of heart. It brings a different type of joy to both  i.e. the one who gets and the one who does. Its as if one of the best feeling in the world. But "we the people of this era" especially has made kindness an option. Kindness , this sense .. This sense of being kind should by treated like an obligation by each and every human being.  Kindness doesn't always cost money. Also, kindness doesnt mean doing and showing .. It is what you do with your heart. Its not just about saying . Its about doing .. Actions are more than just words...  Defines kindness at its best.  We all have bad time but we dont know of what the other person is going through. If they dont show doesnt mean they are not suffering .. Everyone suffers some or the other way. Some say and suffer and some just suffers in silence.. But whatever itis .. We know or not .. We cant be mad on the second person just because we are not having a good day. It doesn't satisfies ...

What exactly is love ?

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  What exactly is LOVE?  Maybe love is friendship.  Maybe love is relationship.  Maybe love is marriage.  Maybe love is halal. Maybe love is haram.  Maybe love is sabr.  Maybe love is acceptance. Maybe love is surprise. Maybe love is sacrifice.  Maybe love is pure. Maybe love is fun.  Maybe love is trust. Maybe love is sad. Maybe love is tears. Maybe love is respect. Maybe love is adventurous. Maybe love is victory. Maybe love is anger. Maybe love is suffering. Maybe love is neglecting. Maybe love is redemption. Maybe love is simple. Maybe love is blushing.  Maybe love is death. Maybe love is misfortune. Maybe love is joy. Maybe love is pure evil. Maybe love is care. Maybe love is understanding. Maybe love is attention.  Maybe love is jealousy. Maybe love is special. Maybe love is fierce. Maybe love is forever. Maybe love is attraction. Maybe love is magic. Maybe love is being childish. Maybe love is remarkable. Maybe lo...

Parents (i)

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Parents Parents are indeed very difficult creatures of God and they hold a great position in our life's. They are special too , indeed๐Ÿ˜€.  There are phases in our life when we love them madly or we are mad at them badly. Sometimes both goes simultaneously.  But we do need them till our very last breathe and they need us too.  But the situation of being mad at them takes away our ability of not being biased. And thats what causes the main problem. No doubt, our parents can be wrong and we can be right and vice versa because no one's right everytime .. We all make mistakes but this wrong and right should not effect the way you see them or yourself.  Disrespect is the new brand of this era. It may seem cool or freedom or great or whatever but in the end disrespect is wrong no matter who's standing in front of you.  We are here because of our parents too and not only by our work or failure and achievements. Parents play a crucial part in our life .....

What its like to love an observer? (II)

 Love for an observer is just so different. Even a slightest change in your behaviour and it will be noticed ..  Funny right .. ! ๐Ÿ˜‚  •They'll notice the way you treat them. •They'll notice what you know about them and what you try to know.  •They'll notice the words you use for them and what they actually mean.  •They'll notice that you remember their favourites or mains.  •They'll notice that you have kept their  favourite or routine in their plate even without they saying it to you to keep it.  (Hahahahahaha) •They'll notice your actions.  •They'll notice your dressing. •your environment , your family , your treatment to the world , your anger , your jealousy , your pain , your escapes .. They'll just notice slightest to the biggest of things ..  They'll notice you even if you dont notice you.  Because, noticing is their .. Take it as a job .. A job from which they can't retire , they can't leave .. Its just a part of them .. eve...

What its like to love an observer? (I)

 So, after a while .. I can say a lot more than while .. M back on writing .. I meant this words_by_z.h , on it ..  So today's topic is kind off twisted I should say ... Umm .. So the intro. Thingy " THE WORST THING THAT COULD EVER HAPPEN TO AN OBSERVER IS LOVE OR EVEN THE BEST THING. "  As the quoted says , now the question arises  How is love the best/worst thing for an observer ..  See , even if you have ever noticed , simply .. As not everyone of us are observers .. An observer notices the slightest thing that you didnt even know existed there . So does it happens in love .  The way you treat them is all what it is about .. Because treating is more than words .. We can simply say " oh man! I love him/her . That's my girl/ boy . " and etc , etc and etc .  but the difficult and the main part is to keep , is to be able to do what we said , quoted and so on .  An observer is not like a simple lover .. ( I dont mean to belittle the lovers over ther...

Darkness in self

" You have to dive in the dark  , To save me from the shark  .." The 'dark' here denotes our mixed up emotions  and The 'shark' here denotes our dark side but ..  Basically , by this  the writer means that the innerself , the heart , the soul of the writer's body is screaming like hell . They are in need of their loved ones to come and help them as it is so dark inside and they are continuously fighting it . The continuous fight with the darkness I.e. the shark , has made the soul weak , a lot weak more then this word could ever describe . The writer's soul is screaming and yelling out on the people that exclaimed and made her feel that they loved  her . Now , she's asking them for help ..  But no one is really listening her silence  .. They all are busy , they also have a life to cope up with .. But cant they come and check over her? Because all she needs is their support to fight .. And she knows she has their support but she wants to feel ...