What its like to love an observer? (II)

 Love for an observer is just so different. Even a slightest change in your behaviour and it will be noticed .. 

Funny right .. ! 😂 

•They'll notice the way you treat them.

•They'll notice what you know about them and what you try to know. 

•They'll notice the words you use for them and what they actually mean. 

•They'll notice that you remember their favourites or mains. 

•They'll notice that you have kept their  favourite or routine in their plate even without they saying it to you to keep it. 

(Hahahahahaha)

•They'll notice your actions. 

•They'll notice your dressing.

•your environment , your family , your treatment to the world , your anger , your jealousy , your pain , your escapes .. They'll just notice slightest to the biggest of things .. 

They'll notice you even if you dont notice you. 

Because, noticing is their .. Take it as a job .. A job from which they can't retire , they can't leave .. Its just a part of them .. even if they hate it .. They just at some point have to make peace with it or it will continue to haunt them especially in case of love.

But did we ever pondered upon it .. That these small things , small acts .. That are like pebbles in a lake makes a big difference in life , actually.  Those pebbles in our life lake aren't the main problems or even they are in some cases but they beautify you or can even turn you in a person that hates itself to the level of a believer hating Satan. 

They do matter . 

As in matter, any thing that has mass and volume. 

Its difficult to love an observer but not impossible . And not only about observer , it is for everyone . These small acts do help us and makes us but if only we understood. 

(Its not like I am a genius.. Its just .. I knew deep down.. But I understand it now, somewhere of course.😀) 


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